It has been said by the great ‘life gurus’, that we are exactly where we are because that’s where we’re suppose to be.
Lessons Learned by Carrie Underwood, is a song about self discovery: We all have regrets we wish we could undo in our life, and yet, without our mistakes, without those ‘wrong’ choices … would we have learned?
Would you be who you are today without the journey you’ve taken?
I think about my own life, and constantly wonder that about myself…had I not traveled this path including good choices and bad, would I be who I am today? Was it necessary for me to take this trip? Was it the direct hit my soul needed to experience in order to graduate to another ‘level of knowingness’.
Thinking carefully, very carefully about these questions I have to honestly say, I probably needed this trip to get to where I’m going. Or, maybe this trip was necessary to help others find their way?
My sons often hear me saying to them, ‘you can take the easy road in life, or the hard road’ …but you don’t HAVE to take the hard road! Personally my road hasn’t been that easy, but when I think about where I am now..emotionally, spiritually, both nicely mixed with a ton of tenacity, would I still possess this growth had I not traveled the ‘hard road’. … As the lyrics say….”When life gets that much harder, it makes you that much stronger”….
So of course that question leads to another question…hate how that happens…Is our journey preordained, or is it as Forrest Gump said, ‘I don’t know if we each have a destiny, or if we’re all just floatin around accidental like on a breeze. But I, I think maybe it’s both’ – Sounds like Forrest has a point there.
Most everyone I know, online and offline have had their fair share of struggles. That’s the common denominator. It hasn’t been ‘Easy’ for many. So what are we to take from this?
When I focus on those in my life who need extra love, extra care, an extra hug or just an ear…life is better. I’m usually off track when I start to think too much about what ‘I need’. I really believe that to get where we’re going, we have to help other people get to where they’re going…without losing ourselves.
Although it sounds like a cliche, sometimes the simplest solutions are the right solutions ….compassion … especially when someone in our life may not have earned or deserve that compassion. As Martina McBride said in her hit song ‘We Do It Anyway. The kicker to this … it has nothing to with earning brownie points for ourselves, it’s just about being, and doing what we can for others, when we can, and remembering to respect ourselves in the process. So simple, yet so hard.
Below is the Album ‘Some Hearts’ or just the song ‘Lessons Learned’ from Amazon: